Do you finally went out with the guy you like. What is even better is that you have clear feeling that he likes you. However, how can you be sure? What are the signs that he likes you after the first tinder hookup? There are lots of tips on this matter. I have seen a lot of them, while lots of them cannot stand.
Do not be fooled by the sweet talks. Some signs that might show that he likes you, but there are some that sound great but meaningless. For example, if he says he has never seen a girl like you for a long time. It is a very god compliment without doubt, but other than compliment, it is meaningless.
If your BBW date says “I’ll call you later”. Don’t be fooled. Lots of men feel that they have to say so, just like Joey in Friends, because they don’t know how to end a hookup in a graceful way. Although it seems confusing, do not take it too seriously, because it is often the signal that they are not going to call.
Another false secure comment is that if a man likes you, he will talk about future plans. For a romantic man, it is fun and nice to talk about future. However, how many men can stick to that plan based on the experience.
Some men who are good at seduction will share lots of personal information, hoping to make you feel secure with them. I am often told my female friends that they think it is a good sign that their date is talking about things personal. Why would they do it if they don’t feel comfortable to do so? This is just an old trick and often works very well. They like to use personal experiences to earn sympathy and put down your guard, so that they can sneak in your bedroom. Don’t be fooled.
So after shared so many false signs, what on earth can we trust. Here are several signs that you can believe in.
He calls the next day to say that he had fun. If you date picked up the phone and called you that he had a good time, this is a strong signal that you are going to see him again. Texting is easy and also lazy. He can text you while texting the other ten ladies, but it is unlikely that he would call 10 ladies. So if he calls the next day, you are probably going to be his girlfriend.
Strong eye contact. If your hookup date stares at you for a long time during the date, he might be implying that he is very interested in you. Strong eye contact shows the comfort and appreciation he has on you. He is longer for more from you. So don’t be too startled if you have a date staring at you. This is not a bad thing.